Move What Matters Forward

Move What Matters Forward

In the past, I didn’t realize what I was bringing with me, which was everything. I thought that if I moved forward fast enough or kept moving forward, I would outrun my past. I was wrong.

I Have Seen You (a poem)

I Have Seen You (a poem)

People wear masks. I know I do. And that is okay, until that mask covers up who you really are. See, even though I wear a mask, it is still representational of who I am. But that is not true for all people.

Forgiveness, Never Forget

Forgiveness, Never Forget

The idea of forgiveness is part of the survivors’ conversation. Do you forgive? And if you do, who are you forgiving? And how is that connected to forgetting? Is there a connection?

It’s Just One Night: Minimizing Life

It’s Just One Night: Minimizing Life

I grew up making myself small. That included minimizing my experiences, especially if it was something positive. I thought it was because I grew up in an abusive home, but as I entered the world, I realized that everyone minimizes themselves and their experiences.

It’s Just One Night

It’s Just One Night

If you are ever standing in court and you hear those words, know this: It is never ‘just one night.’ One night can forever change the trajectory of a person’s life. One night could be the difference between life and death.